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		<title>More Smiles, More Dollars</title>
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				<description><![CDATA[Several years ago I had a shocking experience that permanently changed my outlook. I&#8217;m afraid the traces of that experience began in high school. As a high school football player, we had a strictly enforced protocol among the players for team photos. Forget saying, &#8220;Cheese&#8221; &#8211; everyone needed to wear a game face. Later, I [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Several years ago I had a shocking experience that permanently changed my outlook. I&#8217;m afraid the traces of that experience began in high school. As a high school football player, we had a strictly enforced protocol among the players for team photos. Forget saying, &#8220;Cheese&#8221; &#8211; everyone needed to wear a game face. Later, I joined the military and the same code of conduct applied. Several years after that, I was serving as a consultant on a project with the Defense Intelligence Agency. By then I&#8217;d earned a top secret security clearance and reported to work on a heavily guarded military base. On my way in one day, I happened to see a photo pop up on the security officer&#8217;s monitor as I scanned my badge. The screen showed one of the meanest mugs I&#8217;d seen in a long time. And it belonged to me!</p>
<p>I suppose by that time I had mastered the art of the game face to the point it had become second nature. The fellow on the screen (my picture) looked ill-humored, impatient and most of all, intimidating. I reasoned with myself that the chances of encountering an enemy face-to-face were really quite low. But in my role as a consultant, I interacted every single day with clients and colleagues on important issues that required my influence. That&#8217;s when I made a permanent decision &#8211; I committed to ditching the game face permanently and replacing it with a smile.</p>
<p>Did you know that Charles Schwab estimated that his smile had been worth a million dollars? Smiling for the sake of friendliness is a noble sentiment. But I want to show you that smiling can actually get you much more of what you want from a business standpoint as well.</p>
<p>Let me share with you seven things that a smile communicates in a professional interaction.</p>
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<h3>&#8220;I&#8217;m a positive person.&#8221; &#8211; Positivity</h3>
<p>If you want to send an instant message about your personal brand, flash a smile. Let people know that not only did you show up, but you&#8217;re happy to be there. Studies have shown that 93% of our communication is non-verbal, and a smile communicates positivity instantaneously.</p>
<h3>&#8220;I&#8217;m happy with who I am.&#8221; &#8211; Self-Confidence</h3>
<p>Have you ever noticed that folks who lack confidence have a hard time offering a genuine smile? Maybe they can give a nervous or deflective smile, but that&#8217;s about it. Instead of worrying about their own limitations, self-confident people offer a smile devoid of ulterior motives.</p>
<h3>&#8220;I care about you more than my own problems.&#8221; &#8211; Empathy</h3>
<p>Your problems are obviously important to you, but a smile communicates otherwise. It&#8217;s unfortunate how busyness and stress thwart our ability to connect with others. Choosing to smile despite circumstances can help overcome this.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Let&#8217;s connect.&#8221; &#8211; Approachability</h3>
<p>If you need to reach out to a new group you don&#8217;t know well, but you know someone in the group has a great smile, who will you contact first? Obviously, it&#8217;s the person with the smile. Why? It&#8217;s simply easier, more enjoyable and less emotionally taxing to interact with someone who is approachable.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Let&#8217;s figure this out together.&#8221; &#8211; Collaboration</h3>
<p>In a business setting, a smile can communicate an unsolicited offer to collaborate. Maybe not on the surface, but it&#8217;s the next step after approachability. If you are happy to interact with someone, it follows that you would be happy to see them succeed as well &#8211; including with your involvement.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Let&#8217;s work together.&#8221; &#8211; Business Development</h3>
<p>I work with many vendor partners and the ones I enjoy most and seek to do the most business with are the ones who are positive, collaborative and make my problems their top priority. A smile is the invitation that opens the door. It&#8217;s the first competitive advantage &#8211; and it&#8217;s the easiest and cheapest form of marketing there is.</p>
<h3>&#8220;I have your best interest in mind.&#8221; &#8211; Commitment</h3>
<p>There is a difference between a smile to get someone&#8217;s business and a smile to keep someone&#8217;s business. One is genuine and one isn&#8217;t. One is a long-term commitment and one is only short-term. The best smiles are the ones that last.</p>
<p>So how do you learn to smile if you&#8217;ve been accustomed to being a grouch? My favorite example comes from a young lady named Anjeli. In a professional development class we attended together, she shared how she had forced herself to smile in the mirror all the while playing a YouTube clip of a speech by the politician she most despised. She figured if she could smile through the clip, she could smile in any occasion. So can all of us, I believe.</p>
<p>Wherever you land on the smile spectrum, I encourage you to refresh your commitment. Not only will it make you a friendlier, happier person, it&#8217;s likely to put dollars in your pocket as well.</p>
<pre><b><a href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Nathan Magnuson</a> is a leadership consultant, coach, trainer and thought leader. Receive his ebook <em>Trusted Leadership Advisor</em> by <a href="http://nathanmagnuson.us4.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=9e54171cc1b0bcf947cb36955&amp;id=2a297a9821" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">subscribing to his website</a> or follow him on <a href="http://www.twitter.com/NathanMagnuson" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Twitter</a>.</b></pre>
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