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		<title>Give Them Something to Believe In</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2019 11:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[Recently retired Kansas State football coach Bill Snyder famously crafted 16 Goals for Success which he used with his football teams over his decades of coaching. Goal #13 stated, &#8220;Expect to win&#8230; and truly believe we will.&#8221; According to Coach Snyder, one of the root causes of success was belief itself. In my white paper [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph" style="text-align:left">Recently retired Kansas State football coach Bill Snyder famously crafted <a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="16 Goals for Success (opens in a new tab)" href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/coach-bill-snyders-16-goals-for-success/" target="_blank">16 Goals for Success</a> which he used with his football teams over his decades of coaching. Goal #13 stated, &#8220;Expect to win&#8230; and truly believe we will.&#8221; According to Coach Snyder, one of the root causes of success was belief itself.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In my white paper <a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Nine Ways to Be the Boss Everyone Wants to Work For (opens in a new tab)" href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/best-boss/" target="_blank"><em>Nine Ways to Be the Boss Everyone Wants to Work For</em></a>, the very first best practice I share is &#8220;Belief in the cause.&#8221; As a leader, it&#8217;s not enough to simply perform the work itself. It&#8217;s also not enough to hold only private beliefs. Public beliefs allow leaders to give others around them something to aspire to.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">What types of belief should a leader have? Here are a few for starters.</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Mission and Values of the Organization</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It should go without saying that leaders ought to believe in the mission of the organization. After all, they represent the organization to those they lead. There is a huge difference between passive indifference to the mission and responsible ownership.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It&#8217;s true that not all missions (and mission statements) are created equal. Either way, effective leaders share their belief by vocalizing &#8220;what is it we stand for around here.&#8221;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Product or Service</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some organizations serve people in the midst of their most vulnerable moments. Others create commodities. Some products and services are more exciting then others. But all leaders have the opportunity to rally their teams around the outcome of their work.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A simple way is to ask teams to consider the outcome of a flawed product &#8211; or a poor quality or service experience.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">One company I worked for installed insulation. The product wasn&#8217;t exciting, but it provided leaders with the opportunity to insist that, &#8220;a house with poorly installed insulation can&#8217;t possibly be a home &#8211; it can only just be a house. We help build homes, not just houses.&#8221;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Right Way to Do the Job</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Each of us possess a certain amount of expertise, including leadership expertise &#8211; as my book <em><a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Ignite Your Leadership Expertise (opens in a new tab)" href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/recommends/leadership-expertise/" target="_blank">Ignite Your Leadership Expertise</a></em> explained. Even though we may be in charge, we&#8217;re all on a growth journey.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Regardless of their own levels of expertise, effective leaders possess a POV for how their field ought to operate and the right way to perform essential tasks. For the sous chef, this means insisting on the exact time and temperature for the signature dish. For the auto mechanic, it means having a precise method to perform a safety check. The focus isn&#8217;t micromanagement, but effectiveness.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">People Matter</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">An unfortunate trap execution-focused leaders can fall into is believing (either consciously or unconsciously) that people are a means to an end. People aren&#8217;t the means to an end. People <em>are</em> the end.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Retired General Electric CEO <a href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/leadership-profile-jack-welch/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Jack Welch (opens in a new tab)">Jack Welch</a> observed that, &#8220;If you don&#8217;t like people, leadership stinks!&#8221;  He estimated that 70% of his job was developing people.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">How would you like to be the employee of a leader who believed people don&#8217;t matter? How would you like to be the customer?</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If it&#8217;s been a while since you shared (and showed) how important your team members and customers are in your work, it&#8217;s probably time.</p>



<blockquote class="wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow"><p>&#8220;People aren&#8217;t a means to an end. People <em>are</em> the end.&#8221;</p></blockquote>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">We Can Overcome&#8230; Together</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If you&#8217;ve watched any of Coach Bill Snyder&#8217;s teams play &#8211; or any sports teams for that matters &#8211; it probably didn&#8217;t take long before you saw an incredible game-winning comeback. Against all odds, one team overcame an enormous deficit to win the game.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Obstacles, challenges and resistance aren&#8217;t unique to athletics. They exist in every area of work and life. It&#8217;s the nature of the response that determines the outcome. As Henry Ford famously stated, &#8220;Whether you think you can or you think you can&#8217;t, you&#8217;re right.&#8221;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The highest performing, most resilient teams embody the belief that they can overcome any challenge&#8230; together.</p>
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		<title>The Power of Believing the Best</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Nov 2012 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nathan Magnuson</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Several years ago I had the pleasure of participating in a 16 week leadership coaching training course with the Center for Coaching Excellence (CCE). Since that time I’ve had the pleasure of coaching a number of of business owner or organizational leaders. I enjoyed the insight and techniques I was taught, but the most significant thing I [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Several years ago I had the pleasure of participating in a 16 week <a href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/coaching" target="_blank">leadership coaching</a> training course with the <a href="http://www.centerforcoachingexcellence.com" target="_blank">Center for Coaching Excellence (CCE)</a></span><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">. Since that time I’ve had the pleasure of coaching a number of of business owner or organizational leaders. I enjoyed the insight and techniques I was taught, but the most significant thing I came away with was the relational effectiveness of CCE&#8217;s core values for coaching. For anyone wanting to influence others, I think it represents the bottom line.</span></p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="alignright  wp-image-678" title="Happy Face" src="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Happy-Face-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="216" height="162" srcset="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Happy-Face-300x225.jpg 300w, https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Happy-Face.jpg 500w" sizes="(max-width: 216px) 100vw, 216px" />The value that stood out the most was “believing the best” about other people. Think about that one for a minute. What does believing the best actually mean? How often when we talk or relate with someone do we believe or assume the absolute best about the other person? What could happen if we did? What would it take to get there?<span id="more-360"></span>  I believe there are three areas we can all improve that will make the difference.</p>
<h4>How We View Ourselves</h4>
<p>It&#8217;s impossible to believe the best about anyone else if we are unable to believe the best about ourselves. Think about it &#8211; it&#8217;s on the inside that our beliefs are formed and held. Our standard usually starts with us. Zig Ziglar says, &#8220;It’s impossible to consistently behave in a manner inconsistent with how we see ourselves. We can do very few things in a positive way if we feel negative about ourselves.&#8221; If we&#8217;re going to believe the best about anyone, we need to start with the way we think about, talk about, and believe about the person we see in the mirror everyday.</p>
<h4>How We View Others</h4>
<p>Joyce Landorf Heatherley gives a simple illustration in her small book <span style="font-size: small;"><em><a style="font-family: inherit;" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0929488024?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=0929488024&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;tag=thoufortheeve-20" target="_blank">Balcony People</a></em> that spoke volumes to me</span><span style="font-size: 85%;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">. She differentiates between two types of people: people who evaluate and people who affirm. We’ve all been around people who tend to critique our words, actions, and even our existence as a person. It’s like we are being compared to some unspoken ideal or standard. Nobody appreciates this. It’s near impossible to stay authentic and positive around people who always meet us with scrutiny. Take affirmers on the other hand. These are people convinced that we are up to something good and would love to hear about it. They are incredibly interested in our lives and often take the opportunity to suggest that we are capable of much more than we think. In short, they always believe the best.</span><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><span style="font-family: inherit;">Here’s the word picture that Heatherley uses. She calls the affirmers “balcony people” and the evaluators “basement people.” Basement people (whether they realize it or not) are always pulling us down to their level. Ultimately, they fear the worst about themselves. On the other hand, balcony people stand tall and lift you up (where they are). They are smiling down on us encouraging us to press on. Sometimes they are even hollering and cheering!</span></span></span></p>
<h4>How We Relate and Communicate With Others</h4>
<p>So how can we become balcony people and show that we believe the best about others? Samuel Johnson once commented that, &#8220;the applause of a single human being is of great significance.&#8221; <span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Wouldn’t it be unfortunate to never take the opportunity to significantly influence the lives of others? Here are some approaches we can use:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 85%;"><span style="font-size: small;"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong style="font-family: inherit;">Be proactive</strong></span></em><span style="font-family: inherit;">. Speak up. Any word of encouragement is better than no word at all. Your first attempts may be awkward, but each new time you will become more articulate in communicating that you believe the best.</span><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong style="font-family: inherit;">Be specific</strong></span></em><span style="font-family: inherit;">. This goes beyond merely <a href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/catch-people-doing-something-right/" target="_blank">catching someone else doing something right</a>. When you notice someone doing something especially well, instead of just stating the obvious, point out </span><em style="font-family: inherit;">what about</em><span style="font-family: inherit;"> the particular action you noticed and the benefit it brought to you or someone else.</span><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong style="font-family: inherit;">Assume and affirm noble motives</strong></span></em><span style="font-family: inherit;">. When you encourage someone, make sure to place the most emphasis on how it reflects a part of their character, not just their actions. Don&#8217;t just appeal to the noble motives, like Dale Carnegie said. Call them out when you see them.</span><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><span style="font-family: inherit;">Embracing the value of believing the best can potentially accomplish a number of things. It develops discipline to see the positive instead of the negative. It increases our capacity to genuinely care about others. And in many circumstances, when we are &#8220;hearty in our approbation,&#8221; others are inspired to reach for greater heights than they previously thought possible.</span><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><br style="font-family: inherit;" /><em><span style="font-family: inherit;">Whose balcony can you step into today? How can you take time to creatively communicate it?</span></em></span></span></p>
<pre><b><a href="https://recovery.nathanmagnuson.com/" target="_blank">Nathan Magnuson</a> is a leadership consultant, coach, trainer and thought leader.  Receive his ebook <em>Trusted Leadership Advisor</em> by <a href="http://nathanmagnuson.us4.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=9e54171cc1b0bcf947cb36955&amp;id=2a297a9821" target="_blank">subscribing to his website</a> or   follow him on <a href="http://www.twitter.com/NathanMagnuson" target="_blank">Twitter</a>.</b></pre>
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